how to spot gay people???

when i am at the shop just being normal lol there are sometimes when you look at someone which are hot n u think are they gay or bi, its really hard to know. e personally not being out yet find it really hard to find ppl my age to talk to and meet because you dont really know who are gay and bi ..... plz help

well it's pretty hard to know if someone's gay or not just by looking at them, and asking them could either put you in a daqngerous position (if they're actually homophobes and they figure you're gay) or put them in an an awkward position (they might not be ready to admit they are gay yet). So if you want to meet gay and bi people your own age, the safest and most practical thing to do would be to go to one of the bitbents, which I believe are held on Thursdays at Woden Youth Center and mondays at Belconnen. I don't know the times, but you can find them on this site. I went to the Woden Bitbent once, and I'm pretty sure it's exactly what you're looking for - it's jsut a place where you can meet and talk to other people like yourself.

It really depends on the situation (Helps if your gaydar is epically awesome) but if your going to trust yourself you need to pluck up to courage and ask, but mostly only if you know them. otherwise, complete strangers are not ideal for asking. Anyways, is all comes down to how much you trust your judgement  i would say.