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Author Topic: What kind of person are you attracted to?  (Read 11916 times)

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02 April, 2009, 10:26:16 pm
I am pretty much like one of the guys and I really like guys like that one of the guys I spose, like athletic but not neccesarily some big jock. I like guys that are smart too not some moron, when it comes to music I don't want some guy that loves Britney, Madonna etc. either, when it comes down to it I want a manly man, one that will drink bundy not crusiers and one that can be a mate as well.
But I don't know any other gay people so I suppose I have high standards I don't know, I just know that everytime I see a gay man on TV they're always feminine and I really don't like that I find it kind of annoying a big turn off.

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02 April, 2009, 10:43:30 pm
I am pretty much like one of the guys and I really like guys like that one of the guys I spose, like athletic but not neccesarily some big jock. I like guys that are smart too not some moron, when it comes to music I don't want some guy that loves Britney, Madonna etc. either, when it comes down to it I want a manly man, one that will drink bundy not crusiers and one that can be a mate as well.
But I don't know any other gay people so I suppose I have high standards I don't know, I just know that everytime I see a gay man on TV they're always feminine and I really don't like that I find it kind of annoying a big turn off.

No, I wouldn't say your standards are too high at all!  There's plenty of guys who don't fit the stereotype, and who just like to go out for drinks and the like.  There's a queer group called Jellybabies at the ANU, and although I've never been, I hear they go to, is it, O'Malley's or something?  I don't know.  Some pub/bar or something.  But to be sure, never fear, Anonymous!  There are A LOT of non-stereotype gay guys.  If you're looking for the kind of guy you described, you'll find them easily.

Chris!
Music expresses that which cannot be put into words and that which cannot remain silent.

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02 April, 2009, 11:44:43 pm
They may be harder to find, but are definitely there! It's kind of a nice surprise when really manly guys come out to you. For once it isn't all 'duh!'

And Jellybabies is meeting at 5.30 every Thursday at Teatro Vivaldi (on campus, in Union Court) this year. They call it Queer Beers, and students from any tertiary arena are invited. And, i'm sure they'd love to meet some of the older high school kids as well, of course! 
"Disney Princes are really just dykes in disguise."

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03 April, 2009, 12:30:19 am
That's good to know, I'm not ready for anything like that yet but it's encouraging to here that there are groups like that out there.

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05 April, 2009, 03:21:21 pm
hi ther, im attracted to guyz with girlish looks, transexuals, and short haired gay females. i reckon thts weird

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05 April, 2009, 11:09:07 pm
the type of person im looking for is someone tall, not too big (weight) or too skinny. Someone who has a tight body, muscles are more better. Someone who is nice looking yet not smug about their looks. Someone who will respect me :) Not someone who is one of them float around pouncing queens, but just a normal man

too high mantanece i know. Any 16/17 boys out there with this discription? :) im too picky i know :(

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17 April, 2009, 12:08:23 pm
Plump, curvy girls, absolutely LOVE brunettes. Mostly love femmes but sometimes I can really dig the ones with short hair and baggy clothes.
I also seem to prefer very very feminine guys. (a few of my ex boyfriends were very girly bisexuals) hate muscles of any kind, I find them very squickly.


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18 April, 2009, 11:35:55 pm
I like nerds/geeks mostly =] for the emotional connection stuff. But I find a lot of different looks attractive, so I guess I'm just not all that picky =3
I seem to fall for brunettes a lot...but other than that I see no pattern in looks. I like short/tall, curvy/flat, most stereotypes. All I ask is that they can participate in an intelligent conversation =]

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21 April, 2009, 01:23:14 pm
I fall for a lot of different looks, shapes and sizes as well, I'm not picky in the looks department! I think I'm mostly attracted to confidence in a person, to intelligence and sense of humour. I also tend to fall for straight girls, I'm yet to fall for anyone who will actually reciprocate the feelings!

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21 April, 2009, 03:50:13 pm
yeah, i feel your pain, fence.

the girl i like is straight (i think) and i was like, "oh well, maybe it'll go away" and it won't. GRR


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21 April, 2009, 07:38:17 pm
I ALWAYS fall for the unattainable girls. Be they straight, coupled up or just a huge bitch that messes with your head and never actually asks you out...

*sighs*

Sad making.  :'(
"Disney Princes are really just dykes in disguise."

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21 April, 2009, 11:47:16 pm
I ALWAYS fall for the unattainable girls. Be they straight, coupled up or just a huge bitch that messes with your head and never actually asks you out...

*sighs*

Sad making.  :'(

Oh, I am soooo totally the same.  I don't know, straight guys seem so more appealing.  Perhaps it's a case of you always want what you can't have.  Which, at times, is a bit depressing, actually.
Music expresses that which cannot be put into words and that which cannot remain silent.

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24 April, 2009, 11:48:02 am
Oh dear. Maybe it's an epidemic. I'm in love with a straight girl >.< A straight girl who dated me twice and THEN decided she was straight.

*face palm*

I always fall for unattainable people. >.< Straight/in another country/moving to another country/emotionally unavailable.

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26 April, 2009, 12:47:21 pm
ha ha yeh that sucks My ex bf got engaged to some skanky girl a a while after we broke up, couldnt help but be a little offended haha :)
Physical wise I have a few specific types that Im really attracted to (but im not telling haha) I kind of prefer guys who are boyish as opposed to really camp (But thats just me hope I dont offend anyone lol), but not in a macho way. And I dont really dig super muscly :P Personality wise I look for personalities like me and things i find really interesting or different. I also have a few types I cant seem to be attracted to eg super buff

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30 April, 2009, 09:06:48 pm
I fall in love/lust with people easy as breathing and they are, without fail, straight.

 

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