New here, just thought I'd introduce myself!
(Not by actual name. Sorry.)
Girl, 16, pretty sure I'm gay. Not positive, don't want to label myself till I'm a bit older really-could be a phase- though getting surer and surer that its not. Question for everyone actually- how do you KNOW for sure that you are gay??
Have had a massive crush on a girl at my school for over two years now. She is pretty, popular and has a boyfriend so I'm sure you can all imagine that it is quite a painful exercise. However, as I'm sure you can also all imagine, you can't choose who you fall in love with!
Out to 7 people, not to my parents. No negative responses as of yet, so just keeping my fingers crossed and hoping for the best!
In case anyone is wondering- 'fence' has no particular meaning, was just the first random inanimate object I thought of when thinking of a username.
I'm thinking of coming to Bit Bent Woden- any other (approximately) 16 year olds there, or mainly college 20+ people?
Nice to meet you all!
Hey Fence! Welcome to Qnet!
How do you know you're gay... Well, I find that I perve on guys and NOT AT ALL ON girls. In fact, I find the female physique quite unnattractive. Breasts, anyone? Gross, much?? Vagina?
Ew to all those! Of course, if you're if a girl (lesbian), you'll love the look of breasts. Well, my various lesbian friends tell me they love the look of breasts, at any rate. So, some tips on whether you're gay or not, that you should answer yourself: Do you perve on hot girls/hot women for your enjoyment? (Opposed to checking out someone's look, taste in clothes, comparing them, etc). To be straight to the point: What gets you going/turned on the most? Half naked, muscled man with big biceps and thick abs? Or a slender, half naked woman with big breasts and small bikini?
Does that help AT ALL??
As for BIT BENT! I go to Bit Bent! ANNNND there are...3 - 4 other girls around your age there! One is 17, one is 15 turning 17, one is 14 turning 15, and I think one of them is around those ages. I've never actually asked her... But yes, I recommend you come along! http://www.bitbent.org/index.htm
. That site there has all the info you could want. Also, check out: http://www.qnet.org.au/smf/index.php?topic=376.0
That has some other stuff about it. People (myself included) have posted their experiences of Bit Bent so hopefully it doesn't sound scary!
So yeah! Help? I hope so?CHRIS!