how wierd is this?

one of my friends who is a foriegn exchange student (from belguim) just recently told me he's bisexual.  But he said (and i quote) "i can see myself falling in love with a guy, but not sex" and i gave him one of these -->
kinda doesn't make much sense...

i've got a guy friend who was like that when he first came out. He liked guys but he found the idea of anal sex gross. I thought that was a bit weird! But I think he is starting to change his attitude now that he is more comfortable with being gay. So was this your friend talking about any sexual acts or was he thinking of anal sex?

i've got a guy friend who was like that when he first came out. He liked guys but he found the idea of anal sex gross. I thought that was a bit weird! But I think he is starting to change his attitude now that he is more comfortable with being gay. So was this your friend talking about any sexual acts or was he thinking of anal sex?

i think any sexual acts...

yeah thats a bit wierd! 

yeah thats a bit wierd! 

i know...i gave him one of this looks

i think it might be a common thing and then people just start to like the idea as they explore there feelings for a guy.

thats a good point ^

Yeah, I agree with pacman, I started off in a similar situation.  I found anal sex a bit weird at first, but as time passed my mind opened up to the idea...

I assume it's the same situation with your friend.

g jeff, you know that jerramy is not bi he just said all that stuff so that he could hang around you......LOL

i wouldnt say weird as such, i still want to just fall in love with a guy, im really not that interested in sex, sure its good and all but id rather just ly there being held.. sigh.. weird but meh ^_^

I remember in year 7, my now-girlfriend came out to me. I was already gay.and i remember askingover the phone about how she felt about sex. She sort of said 'um...well...I dont really want the sex...'

I was talking to her about it a few days ago, and it turns out that she was always MORE than okay with the sex, but being in year 7 she was too shy to say it.

Could that be whats happening with your friends? Maybe their just getting used to being gay, and are too shy about the idea of sex...

Two cents,
>esp.

i wouldnt say weird as such, i still want to just fall in love with a guy, im really not that interested in sex, sure its good and all but id rather just ly there being held.. sigh.. weird but meh ^_^

I'm with soulkayn id much rather lay there and just brask in each others company, but dont get me wrong having wild untamed sex is great but i, personally dont think thats all there is to having a well rounded relationship.

one of my friends who is a foriegn exchange student (from belguim) just recently told me he's bisexual.  But he said (and i quote) "i can see myself falling in love with a guy, but not sex" and i gave him one of these -->
kinda doesn't make much sense...

that just says that love can exist alone without sex, yeh, Platonic love, great!!!
btw, for the sake that some guys may not know, anal sex is not that as enjoyable as for women than for men. it can be quite suffering and uncomfy for some gals.

Yeah, I prefer being in a relationship then having sex, I don't think I could ever just fuck someone, well, yeah... I would rather sleep close with someone in bed then have sex with them, maybe it's just some weird adolescent ... thing ? But it's for both girls and guys, sometimes I feel out of place because it seems everyone just wants to fuck fuck fuck but I would rather just be close with someone!

Could it be maybe I'm scared of not meeting their expectations ? But I think if that were so then I would want to go on a "fuck frenzy" to get better and better at it... I don't know but I prefer being in love then having sex.

And I don't want kids.

I remember my gf sent me a text by mistake saying how she thought she might be losing her virginity this year, and it made me think =\ it's gotta be consensual from both sides... What If I don't want to ?

Iunno... I need help!