Let's Get Some Girls in Here!

Hey All,
Well my upbringing was pretty different to most of you...i had lesbian parents! I was born with donor sperm...so obviously my parents are fine with my sexuality. I always felt that being gay was just as normal as being straight. Then i feel for my best friend and told her and she had a psycho homophobic reaction, told the whole school and didnt speak to me again. So that was quite a learning experience for me. Since then i've become quite introverted and have trouble meeting other girls because im scared about how they will react. Haven't had any actual 'experience' so to say! Its hard to meet ppl when you dont like clubbing and drinking  OH well thats why i like this site!
Gips

I aggree - loads of blokes, not many chicks here...
my first time with a chick was with my current gf. she'd had a bit of experiance so kinda took the lead, but it was a pretty eassy learnign curve - loads of fun
how bout u?

how do you find out the no of blokes is a lot more than the no of girls here?

how do you find out the no of blokes is a lot more than the no of girls here?

guys tend to post more often than girls do, the number may actually be pretty similar, but there are a lot of members who don't post. (not that there's anything wrong with that  )
lolli

Havent really read all the other messages above (c'mon its 1pm i can be forgiven for that cant i!?) just wanted to say that its reassuring that there are girls out there getting some 'funtimes' cause i aint, and pple i know aint.  I wish there was a better way to meet pple other than going out and getting trashed and going clubbing.  Im in my mid 20's and do not want to stay a lesbain-virgin too much longer so whats the goss people.... how is everyone meeting thier lovergirls?? canberra sux thats all i have to say and so does UNI as i am up doing stupid uni work tonight... think thats enough boring crap from me.  Thanks everyone.  The pleasure has been all mine im sure!

"lesbian-virgin"

LMAO  ........
  its not funny, just the word 

Hey All  This is a bit out of the blue but I was wondering at what age did most of u "come out"?  
As I'm almost 15 and came out when I was 13. Everyone is telling me that I'm to young to know.
Cassie

What age to 'come out' - now that is the million dollar question isnt it!!...... no it isnt, sorry im being stupid.  Well im 23 and i havent 'come out' yet? probably for a lot of reasons - one, being that im not 100% sure what type of human species im attracted to! sorry, ill be serious - to me 13 does seem young - shocked me a bit when i first read the post - but i guess if you really know then no age is to young (well may be you should at least be out of nappies!).  Have you had a relationship with anyone??... some people say you 'know' after your first relationship? I hope everyone that you have come out to is supportive.... and i hope you get some other posts to your message that are a bit more useful than mine - sorry! LOve, TImes of FUn! 

Funtimes been silly is a good thing it keeps most people happy
Yes i have had a relationship that is wat made me "come out". N yes 13 i young but it had been something that i had been thinking about for some time befor i said anything.
Cassie

hay,
silly is fun - i aggre
on the topic at hand however - i'm 20 - and came out when i was 19. it was somthing that once i accepted it myself, i was like - wow - i've been wasting so much time here!!!
i reckon it helps after you've had a relationship that was serious on any level - kinda makes your mind up for you in a way! but its just a personal thing - if you feel like your ready - then why not tell everyone. its not like its a fixed thing also, i mean once you come out there's nothing stopping you from going back in agian, or changing teams again

Hi girls
well i haven't really had time to read all the posts but I thought i'd chuck my 2 cents in. I'm 17 and started coming out when i was 15. I say started because not everyone knows, ie, my parents. But I started thinking i was, i wouldn't say gay, but 'different' when i was 12, so i don't think 13 is too young.

Jess

This is a really interesting thread, so many topic changes... but the most recent one:

I don't think there is any such thing as "too young".  Whatever you feel right now is completely valid.  As long as you accept that there is no definite "end point" - no place at which you can go, "right, never going to change anymore!"  I'm twenty and I'm very confident in my identity at the moment, but at the same time I don't know if I'll always feel the way I feel now, or always think of myself as the same person.  Whatever I feel now is true for now, and as far as I'm concerned it will be true for the foreseeable future.  But if I ever stop changing it'll be because I'm dead.

So, no, 13 isn't too young!  If it's how you feel then it's true, and if you want to tell people then you should.  Coming out can be really empowering, and it can also be a huge relief.  But sometimes it can also be really hard, and in some ways it might be good to get it over and done with sooner rather than later.  My parents were reasonably good about it when I came out (apart from a couple of weird things, but that's another story) but they're certainly much better now, six or seven years later.  I'm glad I told them when I did, it's made life since then so much more pleasant.  They may not have liked every girlfriend I've ever had, but the point is they've known about all of them.  And that's been really important for me.

Go you!  Whatever you want to do there's no "right age".  Don't let other people's reactions put you off to much, this is about you, not about them.

I just re-read my post: I'm so opinionated!  This is just what I believe...

Lolol, Ladymagpie, I agree with pretty much every single word you have posted on this board as a whole so far. I think..

I don't think there is a 'too young' for anything.. Ever.
I actually kind of despise age restrictions and such.

Not because I am a krunk little hardcore teen who wants booze and smokes and clubbing.
But in general, I don't agree with the concept of age. I find it quite shallow actually.

Again with the soul thing.. No one gets to choose when they are born, so no one can choose how old they are. So yeah.. I'm too tired and drained to elaborate in detail right now -o-

Hmm I guess you could say I'm also a tad bit of a pedophile in that respect..
Seems I'm into beastiality (sp) and pedophilia and I didn't even know!

Hmm..

Yeah

Well the point is, no 13 is not too young to come out.
If a 13 year old can be identified as heterosexual and can fantasize about the opposite sex, then a 13 year old can also be identified as homosexual or bisexual or whatever, yeah.

Amen Ladymagpie and Honeybear!

Going back a bit now in the convo. . . no one's too young to be gay!  I knew when I was 8, came out when I was 12-13.  However I didn't really become comfortable talking about my sexuality until I was about 15-16, so it was still a long process. 

Having people say you're too young is veeeeery annoying, and anyway, you can always change your mind later.  Well, not change you mind per-se, but ya know.  I hope I don't open a can of worms with the 'nature or nurture' debate 

Bah, the nature or nurture debate is interesting but, in my opinion, pretty irrelevant.  I think it's probably different for everyone, anyway.  What really matters is how you genuinely feel, and how you go about expressing that, and not the reasons you feel that way (although those reasons might be important for other reasons... woah, horrible sentence).  I really shouldn't post messages when I'm sick, I don't make any sense.