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Love and friendship / Re: Lets Talk About Sex
« on: 23 September, 2006, 02:54:39 pm »
Anyway, back to the real world, i dont, like, wanna just do it in someones care or whatever. But then again, where does one do it in this country; i realised a few weeks ago that doors in this country have NO locks. (im staying with this family my mum sorta knows)

yeah i a agree... i mean, where can you go? unless my parents are away, which doesnt happen all that often, i cant do it at home...and i dont want to do it in some seedy back alley or in someone's car....is there a happy medium between the rose petals and the alley? very frustrating. i mean, i feel really ready to do it, and while id like to do it with someone i really care about etc. thats probably not going to happen for a long time, and when your as sexually confused as i am, i think some definite answers would be good. so the only problem is location, location, location....oh what to do?

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In Our Own Write discussion / Re: Update: What we talked about on Tuesday.
« on: 20 September, 2006, 08:02:54 pm »
hey ive got some stuff id love to contribute. when/how can i do so?
cheers
oz

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Anything goes / Re: How do you feel about bein queer
« on: 20 September, 2006, 07:52:49 pm »
well i'm not out. except to a few close friends, and im 18! The worst part is i know my family would be much more accepting than most and it wouldnt be much of a problem eventually. but the whole thing just scares me, escpecially when im not even sure im gay. i feel at some strange point between bi and gay, but i dont want to tell people im one thing when it turns out im not. maybe i can just say 'hey, i'm not straight!' Anyone got some kind of a gay-o-meter? lol. Sexuality is very confusing thing, well at least for me. its liken not really knowing who you are....but i guess all you can do is be as open as possible and hope the eventually youll know. Actually, is it possible to be 100% bi? l guess that's the confusing part... trying to like both equally. i feel sometimes you just end up with niether. but i dunno. and what about being in a relationship...is it harder being bi? because your partner will worry about you liking the opposite sex?
doe anyone else feel the same way i do?
buh bye for now
oz
:P

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Music, books, movies... / Re: the best TV show
« on: 20 September, 2006, 07:45:20 pm »
Will and Grace is HILARIOUS! i spent all of saturday just watching it and even episodes id already seen a million times were funny. Jack is just so funny. I cant believe hes not gay! Lol. And will is kinda hot....But yeah, i agree, Karen is hilarious. i love her relationship with Jack, and her constant of payouts of Grace

Grace: "I said meditation room Karen, not medication room."
Karen: "Wel, you say potato..."

Karen: "Grace has got more talent in her little 12 year old boobs than you ever will!"

But does anyone notice that Will doesnt really seem gay? I mean besides from enforcing the gay stereotype of "oh i cant go out in the rain im wearing suede!", he never has a boyfriend, and rarely has any physical contact with guys. im not asking for queer as folk but....

but still it is a hilarious show.
and the simpsons comes in #2 only because the new episodes arent that funny. just REALLY wierd and random. what the?

Why isnt family guy on the list? funniest show ever!

oz

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Music, books, movies... / Re: big brother
« on: 23 May, 2006, 07:08:14 pm »
yeah, buffy rules. smg has to be a natural blonde to not realize its probably the only good thing shes ever done...except maybe getting killed in i know what you did las summer hehe. buffy used to be one of my favourite shows actually. especailly the faith vs. buffy thing. that kicked ass. anyway

so hapgood, been to see the davinci code recently? i feel i should start a new message board... it was totally awsome. i mean the book was really cool, not the best writing, but definitely exciting, and the movie really kept that edge-of-you-seat tension. nicely done. i thought the acting was good too, and they got all the important things that brown brought up. a really good interpretation i thought. i mean, not a GREAT OSCAR WINNING MOVIE, but then again, it wasnt a pulitzer prize winning book... sorry, that was directed at all the critics who just love criticizing anything that doesnt explore the depths of the human psyche lol... good book, good actors, good script, good director, good music = really good movie
oz

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Music, books, movies... / Re: big brother
« on: 22 May, 2006, 04:59:53 pm »
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P.S. Hello Oz! Welcome to Qnet. Is your user name Dorothy, national or Buffy related?  8)

interestingly none of the above! i mean, i did love buffy, but not so much oz, and the wizard of, well its a classic. love that one. and yeah, im an ozzie i guess. but its actually just a nickname ive been given, although it started off as ozzie, i like oz better, it has a cool ring to it.

anyway. yeah i agree with the fact that david was a bit decietful, but lets face it, it is a game. though that doesnt at all excuse it. its interesting that he chose to come out in the house - why do other gay guys just go in to the house and everyone knows they're gay? im curious if maybe the show's producers had anything to do with it because he says on the big bro website that "i'll have something to reveal" or something like that - it did give good ratings. anyway. how do people feel he has been treated in the house and in public? do people like him because he's nice or because he's gay i.e. 'oh the courageous gay guy coming out on national tv'?
also, i really like hapgood's point about them being forced to be celebrities for no other reason than the strength of their personalities, and then afterwards they try and hold on to celebrity status for as long as possible before disappearing into nothing. what were those two who got married called? jess and someone? there was a pretty pathetic tv special on the wedding...gross
cheers
oz

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Music, books, movies... / Re: big brother
« on: 21 May, 2006, 11:51:24 am »
good point, i never really thought about that. then again i didnt really watch the whole coming out incident. but yeah its true, he shouldnt have played with people like that, its almost like he's using his homosexuality to get a reaction from people in the house and at home, which really isnt cool. good point hapgood
still hot tho
oz

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Music, books, movies... / big brother
« on: 17 May, 2006, 09:41:06 pm »
ok... first of all, let me point out that i dont watch this show...normally. the idea of a bunch of random people in a house doing nothing but bitching and carrying on about nothing really doesnt appeal to me at all. that is until David. wow. i mean talk about HOT! So when he came out, i was like, wow, this could be interesting. first of all he is really hot and he seems like a really nice guy too (did i mention I have dark hair and eyes?) lol. but thats only part of it...a considerable part. but more interestingly i find the show interesting as a microcosm of society which the whole public has access to constantly. i know its not strictuly 'reality', but it does exemplify aspects of our society. like, for example, as soon as he came out it was like he was one of the girls. all of a sudden its assumed that he will fit in to the 'gay' stereotype; chatting with girls about boys. which he does do, but i cant help feeling that he's somewhat segregated from the guys....i suppose its natural, but he's not the stereotypical camp gay guy, hes more blokey, and yet there is this awkward division between him and the boys that exists whenever its just guys. this seems a parallel to our/my own state; while society holds up a pretence of total acceptance, and to a certain extent its true, due to the male-dominated society and the homophobia ingrained in these males, there continues to be a feeling of taboo towards homosexuality. i just find it interesting that this is so exemplified on tv; can such an example on mass-media possibly promote better understanding of the gay cause? Also, last night i think an intruder went in who was gay. now he seems the polar opposite of David; hes totally camp with the long hair, the earrings, and i guess hes a bit more stereotypical. i wonder what the effect is? I think maybe it is good because it represents the nature of gay society; yes there are the some-what effeminate guys who are totally out and proud, and then there are the more reserved ones like David. again awareness and understanding? How will both of them intereact with the other housemates and what effect will this have on the public's interpretation? Finally i wonder that perhaps making such a big deal of the gay thing, as in David being the "token gay guy" or whatever, is just creating a greater stigma for gay people in general, and not really a good thing at all.
im probably just ranting on about nothing, it will probably have no effect whatsoever, but its just interesting to think about
oz
ps. Jamie AO...HOT!

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Meeting people / Re: Is It Just Me Or....
« on: 16 May, 2006, 11:56:40 pm »
hey i just thought id chime in with my own thoughts
i feel im in the middle of the arguement. i mean, im as horny as the next guy, lets face it, we're guys. and im new to this world so yes i want to experiment, i want the physical side because thats part of the reason im the way i am. i thought it was the only reason for a while. but then i started thinking about it, and yeah the physical side is great, and yeah i want to go further, maybe just in meaningless nights, but ultimately thats just going to be a temporary thing. so yes, we are guys, but more than that, we are human beings, and humans need love more than anything. ultimately we all look for love. some of us are luckier than others. so then i just thought about the possibility of a meaningful relationship with a guy, andi actually really liked the thought. that feeling of being held, but really held, thats what we need. so i dont know. im thinking maybe a bit of both is ok. we need to experiment to find our boundaries and define them. and who knows, maybe flings can turn into something more. ultimately we need to just keep an open mind. eventually the right situation will come along, and if we're open to just go with the flow, something will happen, if nothing else it will be an experience and something to learn from. so yeah, just be open to whatever comes along...well thats where im at at the moment. where are you guys/girls feeling?
oz

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Meeting people / Re: The "Hi, my name is..." thread
« on: 16 May, 2006, 11:40:49 pm »
hey guys and girls out there wats happening?
just registered...pretty happy, u know another step with coming to terms with who i am etc. but whatever. im 18. lived in canberra for 6 years. not quite 'out and proud' yet, but im not sure what im out and proud about yet...  :-\ but all i know is that its good to be open to anything. at the moment im into guys and girls, but the guys catch my eyes a little more right now, which is fun if confusing. anyway, i love anything arts, painting, drawing whatever, and also really into acting, kind of my thing. i enjoy the odd bit of writing. music, well im into most things actually, pop, hip-hop and dance are my top 3 at the moment, but chillout, house, and rock are constants. most of all i cant wait to get out into the big wide world...
so yeah, just thought id say g'day
oz

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