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Anything goes / Re: Just coming out...
« on: 16 May, 2009, 04:44:28 pm »
Objections from companies tend to evaporate when you remind them of their sense of corporate greed ("you're gonna be like that? I'll just take my money to the competition then...").

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Your experience / Re: Faghags 'R' Us
« on: 13 October, 2008, 08:04:27 pm »
People of that ilk shouldn't be credited with an over-abundance of brains.

The truth is that they're obviously all overawed by your awesomeness, the strength of your character, and the courage with which you stick to your convictions, and have raging crushes on you that their closed minds, combined with their heteronormative supremacist upbringings, won't allow them to acknowledge.

Either that, or their individual IQs, being around room temperature on a good day, are unable to meet the task of understanding your stance, so their reptilian brains have to break it down to something they can actually process. Try throwing something shiny and see if they chase it.

On the bright side, you've got about three months of this left, then it's on to bigger and better things.

And on a totally unrelated note; "ilk" is a fantastic word that doesn't see nearly enough use.

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Meeting people / Re: The "Hi, my name is..." thread
« on: 05 August, 2008, 05:35:21 pm »
Welcome to Hugh and sundry other new peoples!

Have fun, and keep to this side of the walrus.

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Anything goes / Re: Getting it off your chest
« on: 08 July, 2008, 06:33:02 pm »
I think the only thing I can say/do there samo, is: *hug?*

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Meeting people / Re: I love Bit Bent!
« on: 19 June, 2008, 04:33:41 pm »
... always found it hard to feel comfortable at Jellybabies... *shrug* maybe it was just me.

Oh, well, entirely academic now.

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Your experience / Re: Three Good Things
« on: 19 June, 2008, 04:31:38 pm »
Hey Haps, I have to get my fun somehow :P and it's not like it's that great a challenge :P

And second what you said about Danny and MiL

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Meeting people / Re: I love Bit Bent!
« on: 14 June, 2008, 11:14:00 am »
I found the same thing at the start... and yeah, it's better if you know some people already.

And I can't articulate my thoughts on the buses without using language inappropriate to this forum.

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Your experience / Re: Three Good Things
« on: 14 June, 2008, 11:11:38 am »

Gentlemen.

Where in Canberra can a man go where his hair is respected?


Anton's. Civic. Near Milk&Honey. They listen to what you want, and then tell you how to brush your hair to achieve the same effects after sleep/shower/etc has messed it up.

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Anything goes / Re: Assimilationist or Liberationist?
« on: 05 June, 2008, 06:09:01 pm »
My view; false dichotomy.

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Anything goes / Re: Getting it off your chest
« on: 27 May, 2008, 11:25:31 pm »
[this post bears no relation to the one above]

There is only one thing I can say:
Seriously?! Seriously! ... SERIOUSLY!

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Your experience / Re: Faghags 'R' Us
« on: 25 May, 2008, 11:23:21 pm »
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I didn't really know what to make of that. I have no excuse to want equality between people? Would you be saying that if I advocated the rights of coloured people? Or Catholics? This is in a school where as part of our ethics unit, we are taught that the Catechism of the Catholic Church says that homosexuals have to be treated with compassion. Yet every act at this school goes against it - as I discovered after relentless bullying because I tried to be compassionate.
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I've tried a lot of different tactics on how to cope with it. By this point, even my friends just want everything to disappear. But I really don't want to suppress who I am - a damn proud faghag - just because my peers have found a new, more subtle form of homophobia to pour all their hatred into. I'm just wondering, if you as gays were at my school, would you want me to back down?
...

It depends on the form it takes and the location you're in. If we were at my old high school (which included years 11 and 12 for those of you in the ACT), yes, I'd want you to back down.

I wouldn't want you to get a free ride in an ambulance, and I wouldn't want to be occupying the next bed over.

But I don't think (I sure as hell hope) that your environment isn't as unfriendly.

There is one thing; while you are doing the right thing there, (if I may be permitted to paraphrase Hairspray) - you've opened yourself up to a parade of ugly from a world of stupid.

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Your experience / Re: Does "fag" insult you?
« on: 25 May, 2008, 11:12:34 pm »
<snip>
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I had typed up a post, then i read down a bit and saw that this was more or less if not precisely what i had said x_x Getting called a "Faggot" makes me feel like crap but I find "fag" endearing when friends call me it. It depends who says it and the implications of the term at the time its said.

Agree with those two there...

On the subject of the Westboro nuts; I always have an urge to give my "het-er-o-sex-u-als!" speech whenever I heard them go off...

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Anything goes / Re: Adjustment in Australia
« on: 18 May, 2008, 01:29:05 pm »
There's no challenge at all in that one...

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Meeting people / Re: The "Hi, my name is..." thread
« on: 16 May, 2008, 08:32:55 pm »
Yeah, what they both said.

And nice accepting people are always welcome. Come on in honey, make yourself at home.

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Anything goes / Re: femme and butch
« on: 16 May, 2008, 08:26:37 pm »
I spent about half an hour ranting to Chris about the semantic intricacy of label-terms for femininity and attraction.  He laughed at me.  He also thinks I'm a lipstick bulldyke. 

For the record, I think you're a lunatic.

But am inclined to agree with Chris.

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